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Prior to the fall of the Iron Curtain, everything about East Europe was shrouded in mystery, including its aloof women. This is among the factors that contributed to the booming popularity of East European ladies among Western gentlemen. Russian, Polish, Ukrainian brides became a hot topic! This tendency is best illustrated by the current First Lady who is of Slovenian (ex-Yugoslav) origin, as well as President Trump’s first wife who is Czech. Today, however, one particular East European country has the reputation as an “exporter” of the most beautiful and feminine wives – Ukraine.
Mind that today, meeting a fascinating Ukrainian lady to marry has become much more facilitated than it had been in the times of Mr. President’s first marriage and even in the times when he married Melania. Today, there is online dating, and all you have to do is create a profile at a mail order bride website, chat with a few girls, pick that special one and charm her, – and this is your sure way to a life-long happy family life with a devoted (and most resourceful!) spouse.
We have created this article to give you brief and concise answers to all the most frequently asked questions about Ukrainian brides, including:
First of all, be warned that no reputable mail order brides website will ever claim a 100% success guarantee for your marriage. When you see such claims, you are most likely up against a scamming attempt. All that such a website can offer is to get you connected with the most fitting ladies according to your features and expectations that you state in your profile and facilitate your communication. This is what you may expect when you mailorder Ukrainian brides. You cannot literally buy a Ukrainian bride with a price tag here or in any other respectable place. Once you are convinced that you have found the girl you’ve been looking for, it is up to you to do whatever it takes to win her over. Of course, the website will do all in its power to facilitate your success, but the final say is always yours.
You may have heard plenty of troublesome news from Ukraine recently. The revolution, occupation, and an ongoing war make it only logical to assume that plenty of Ukrainians, including women, are desperate to leave the country at any cost. This, however, is by far not the only reason why so many Ukrainian women seek their fate on dating sites. You need to be informed about all their drives because, after all, you are starting a family, not a refugee shelter.
Arguably the most crucial reason behind this tendency is of a demographic nature. 54% of Ukrainian citizen are women, and the gap estimates about 3.5 million people. This means 3.5 million single Ukrainian women are forced to either partake in a severe competition for men or choose to stay lonely and pursue other priorities in their lives. That is, of course, until they begin to consider marrying men from abroad. Fortunately for both you and them, it has become a much more effortless endeavor today than back in the day.
This demographic gap leads to another reason why many Ukrainian girls would prefer to marry a gentleman abroad than a compatriot. This gap is no secret, and many men in Ukraine, realizing it, place increased expectations and responsibilities onto their women without giving much back. They tend to excess in unhealthy habits and take little to no care of their health and shape. Some try to justify it by the “traditionalistic” approach which they see as the one where the man dominates and does whatever he wants while the woman subsides and silently fulfills her “womanly” duties. Others don’t bother to justify their self-indulgence at all. Of course, we cannot generalize and speak about all men in Ukraine, but if you go there, you will notice the stark contrast between stunningly hot Ukrainian brides and unremarkable men as soon as you look around in the street.
Then, of course, there’s an economic reason. East Europe is generally not a wealthy region, and Ukraine is among the least well-to-do countries here. It’s only natural for women to get the desire to relocate somewhere with better prospects and opportunities. However, when you date Ukrainian women, there’s no reason to get paranoid that a Ukrainian girl will simply use you as a shortcut to her green card. Of course, nobody is safe from such scamming, but this is not a specifically Ukrainian “thing.” On the contrary, most Ukrainian women are brought up with sincere respect to the institute of marriage and treat it with utmost seriousness. This means that, in their viewpoint, a marriage can only have the purpose of creating and maintaining a happy family, and no other; but we’ll talk about that in greater detail later on.
This is the first thing that strikes your eye when you come to Ukraine – how many beautiful girls there are in the streets! “Why are Ukrainian women so beautiful!” – you might hear yourself exclaiming. There is a widespread opinion that this is due to the massive witch hunt that took place in the West in the medieval times. In East Europe, people also were overly religious and concerned with the threat of witchcraft. Here, however, witches were mostly believed to be ugly and deformed, whereas in the West priests would burn the most beautiful women, influencing the gene pool accordingly.
Valid as it may sound, it still doesn’t explain why Ukrainian women enjoy the reputation of being more attractive than girls from neighboring East European countries. In our opinion, it’s not only about enviable genes but also about the way Ukrainian women for marriage choose to present themselves. The key to understanding this phenomenon lies in their upbringing. Unlike most of their neighbors, Ukraine remains a conservative society, especially in some regions of the country. In this worldview, girls are raised to become efficient wives, not just attractive brides. This, of course, includes looking eye-pleasing but never too flashy. As such, if she wants to attract a man with serious intentions, a Ukrainian girl must also look serious – minimal and not too flashy make-up, clothes that underline her points of attraction but leave something up to a man’s imagination, etc. Unlike, for example, Russian girls who desperately strive to look like top models, Ukrainian girls want to look like they can make proper wives rather than mere decorations for their men.
Beautiful Ukrainian brides are also keen on fitness, but they avoid extremes. For them, the essence of fitness is about health, and attractive looks come second – but they come inevitably. She will avoid looking too sportive because she believes that a woman should look a tad fragile, not unlike a prized jewel. But, once again, she takes great care of her health – so she is stronger than she looks. This hints that she will take equally great care about your health and the health of your children.
The woman’s beauty does indeed play an important role in building and maintaining a family. There are, however, many other contributing factors that are equally, if not more important. Besides, many will agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some will say that Ukrainian girls are not as beautiful as we have described. Still, there are more Ukrainian women characteristics to charm you for life.
Ukrainians say that the path to a man’s heart lies through his stomach. Those who disagree have probably never tried a Ukrainian woman’s cooking. It’s no secret that every Ukrainian loves a good meal, and Ukrainian traditional cuisine is rather diverse and nutritious. However, when a Ukrainian girl gets to the kitchen, she likes to reveal her creativity. Moreover, she is curious about what people in other parts of the world eat and how they make it taste well. So, if you happen to be the rare instance of a person who doesn’t like Ukrainian national cuisine, she will not insist on torturing you with it. Quite the opposite – she will be eager to recreate any meal of any cuisine with a personal touch. In other words, Ukrainian mail order brides are not as conservative about cooking as they are about other aspects of family life.
Speaking of which, as we have briefly mentioned, her views on family life will be rather old-school. Unlike many women in Western countries, hot Ukrainian women don’t see a conservative distribution of family roles as some societal rudiment that limits their opportunities for personal growth, etc. On the contrary, they see being good wives and, eventually, good mothers as the grand opportunity to realize themselves. For them, having their families well fed and taken care of and their homes sparkling clean is not a torturous chore imposed by patriarchy, but rather something in what they take pride and for what they will expect to be appreciated.
As you may guess, morality and spirituality also play a significant role in her mindset. This does not always mean going to church every Sunday. It is more about following the general principles of good will. These include staying faithful and devoted to your family, being overall kind and generous, etc.
Naturally, when one hasn’t seen much of the world, all new places and people seem unusual and exotic. Still, the more you travel, the more you realize that there are much more similarities than differences. Ukrainian women VS American women are also in their essence the same, but some differences dictated by objective circumstances do occur.
The stereotype goes like – American women are more into feminism, so they are less family-oriented than Ukrainian women. It’s not entirely untrue, but that’s a drastic oversimplification. It sometimes happens that an American man wants a woman who will “know her place” and quietly cook for him and do his laundry while he boozes himself or overindulges himself otherwise. If this is your case, be advised to stop right here because no beautiful Ukrainian women will cope with it.
Another stereotype is that American women want “respect” that they can hardly even define, without giving anything in return, or that they see any household responsibility as repression against her equality. We cannot account for all women, and we are not here for a sociological study. The truth is that American women do seem to consider it liberating to go to the office instead of doing chores around the house.
The situation is different in Ukraine. In the way how Ukrainian parents raise their girls, equal gender rights do not conflict with the traditional role of a woman in a family. As a matter of fact, by many standards, Ukrainian women brides are in fact more emancipated than in the US and have been so for quite a while.
As we have mentioned, the demographic situation in Ukraine still favors women over men. This is a direct consequence of all the military turmoil that East Europe had to go through throughout the 20th century. Those countries lost so many men that there were simply not enough of them to maintain the proper domination of patriarchy. Women in the USSR got the opportunity for emancipation much earlier than in Western countries because they had to go to work, schools, and even to the army. For them, it was a duty, not liberation. Until today, there are more women in leadership positions in Russia and Ukraine than a regular American feminist can dream of. Therefore, when a Ukraine girl for marriage gets an opportunity just to sit at home without the necessity to go to work and without a care in the world other than household chores, she sees it as a blessing. On the other hand, she will only agree to her fully-fledged feminine role if you provide well enough to be the only working family member.
So, on the one hand, marrying a Ukrainian woman, you won’t need to worry about having a delicious home-cooked meal at your clean and cozy home every day. But on the other hand, she will not be treated as a servant. So, this ideally can only happen under the condition that you, from your side, provide well enough to maintain this kind of lifestyle and, arguably even more importantly, make her feel appreciated for everything she does for you and for the house, which brings us to our next point…
In our passage about the demographic situation in Ukraine, we have briefly touched upon how Ukrainian men are. It is easy to imagine how underappreciated many Ukrainian women feel. This is what they seek in men – both local and those from abroad – appreciation and attention. Showing your appreciation and attention and being a gentleman, in general, is the most secure way how to win a Ukrainian women’s heart. All in all, it is not complicated at all, but if you have no clue how to do it, here are a few certain ways:
We have discussed that Ukrainian women work really hard on maintaining their natural beauty. So, even when it looks like she’s just pretty by nature, you can’t know in advance how much effort she may or may not have put in it. Still, you’re not losing anything by noticing how pretty she looks today. Moreover, there’s no harm in being more specific about it – compliment her hair, her eyes, her smile, etc., and try to be creative and colorful. Do that as soon as you first see these Ukrainian women online. Unlike with many American women, she will consider it not an objectification but an appreciation of the effort she put in looking pretty.
Who doesn’t like a little present? A true gentleman will never come to a lady empty-handed. It doesn’t make her a money-grabber, it’s a matter of attention. So, you can get her something small to show her that you were thinking about her and spent some time and effort picking something for her. It can be a box of chocolates, a bouquet of flowers, or something of the like.
It may seem like a paradox. On the one hand, she invests great effort in looking pretty for you and is grateful when you notice and appreciate it. But on the other hand, mail order Ukrainian brides would like you to see beyond their looks – as stunning as they may be – and to appreciate their beautiful personality. In turn, expect of them to do the same. She will want to hear everything you deem interesting about yourself – your family, work, education, hobbies, etc. She will be all attention, and she will laugh at your jokes. But remember – she will expect you to do the same. Don’t be afraid to “lose” her by talking about something you don’t think she’ll find interesting. As we have mentioned, emancipation in the ex-USSR is much deeper than in the US or the EU, and education is much more accessible to girls. So, she will most likely surprise you with her intelligence and wit. If a topic is unfamiliar to her, she will listen more up until the point where she is well-informed enough to formulate an opinion to share.
When you two are at the point of sharing a place where she cooks and cleans, don’t ever begin to take it for granted. When you come into a clean home or even room, notice how clean it is. When you eat meals she cooked, compliment her cooking, – it will be worth it every time! Moreover, don’t be scruffy – take care that the house she cleaned stays clean. And if you keep offering help around the house, you will literally melt her heart!
There may be a lot of possible reasons why a man would seek Ukrainian brides online rather than through socializing offline. He can desire a woman from a particular faraway location which one needs a good reason to set sails for; he can be too busy to go out with strangers and prefer to get better acquainted with a woman from the comfort of his home or office, etc. Regardless of the reasons, meeting the woman of your dreams online has never been easier than it is today.
All you should do is pick the dating website you like, fill in a detailed yet self-explanatory register form, and write to the girl(s) you like. From here, everything is in your hands: use your charm and our tips to woo her to the altar!
The only safety precaution will be to steer clear from free dating services that are only good for mindless hookups. When your intentions are serious, it makes sense to cooperate with a legitimate Ukrainian dating site operated by a reputable Ukrainian marriage agency – like the one you see right here. The fee we charge for our service services is our safety precaution against people who would come here out of sheer curiosity or any other reasons that don’t have anything to do with marriage and creating a happy family. When a gentleman is ready to pay for facilitating his connection with his bride-to-be, it leaves no doubt as to his mind being set for marriage. For such a gentleman, we are eager to apply all effort to meticulously screening all our ladies to make sure that they indeed have a lasting and happy marriage in mind before we let them place their profiles on our website. We are equally eager to facilitate the success of your marriage in any other way we can. This all suggests maintenance costs which is another (but not primary) reason why we have to charge our clients. We struggle to keep our pricing within reason at all times.
We have one more brief and humble disclaimer to make. Our clients pay for facilitating the communication, not for the women themselves – because selling human beings is both illegal and immoral. In other words, in “mail order brides,” the keyword is “mail” not “order.” Only if you treat her like a lady that she is can you hope for your bright future together. If you do it right, you will take your relationship offline, and will be out of the picture together with our fees. Before that happens, we will work hard shoulder-to-shoulder with you to make that happen and get that dream lady out of the Ukrainian brides club and into the happy wives club.